02-14-2018, 03:49 PM
(02-14-2018, 03:35 PM)Charlotte4711 Wrote: It usually goes that as you wake up unless your partner wakes with you then you end up going separate ways!
That happened with me... I was with someone for years & although he was open to some stuff, my life took a different path due to the nature of the interests I had! I wanted to follow it far deeper down the rabbit hole & he wanted to just sit on the sofa,drink cans & watch the rugby!!!
I ended up marrying someone who is awake, much more on my level, very open minded but religious! So that does limit how open his mind is... bless him!
I don’t think it’s possible to be with someone who doesn’t know some of this stuff because it does dominate your life in the sense that you want to talk about it, your perception of the world is very different& your values etc shift to what’s important and less superficial!
Even though I have a few friends open to stuff a little, I still don’t have anyone in daily life I can chat to regularly about all this stuff!
It affects your friendships not just your love life! I find most conversions boring & lacking in substance & superficial & those that might promise a little of science or religion or history usually don’t go far because of the lack of fundamental understanding of the subject! It’s just repetitive & scripted!
I sound very up myself but that’s not what I’m trying to say... I don’t think I’m better than anyone at all, I just have different interests and unless I meet someone with those same interests, friendships are a bit boring at times!
I think we need an alternative view dating site!!!
I do know exactly what you mean. I went out with a few mates yesterday to watch the footie and catch up on a few things and the conversation eventually turned to world events and I ended up waffling on about false flags and media corruption etc and my mates were looking at me like I was a lunatic. You try not to go into these things too deeply but I find I cannot stop myself. I guess some people just don't want to think about it.
Maybe we can get Richie to start up "Against the Elite" singles instead of Elite singles